The Dungeon Manor
For the first year and a bit of My time in Canada, I lived in a very special place that completely revolutionised My way of seeing the world, and My experience of life as a whole. It had a profound impact on Me and made Me who I am today. I lived in an intentional community. You may not have heard of these before, so let Me explain. A community is a gathering of many people, not necessarily related, who live together as a group, and share each other’s day to day lives. An intentional community is pretty much the same, but made of people who have chosen to live together due to common goals or ideologies. For a year and a half, I was lucky enough to live in such a place, and it was truly magical. By complete chance, I had ended up living with a group of people who were positive, creative, open minded, and non judgemental.There was a constant buzz of creativity and a sense of having a strong support network in all these people. Nobody was judged, everybody was encouraged to explore anything and everything that they wanted to in a safe and nurturing environment. Sadly, I had to leave the commune after a year and a half, as I needed to attend cooking school. But the memories of My time there will stay with Me forever.
As the years passed, I found Myself pining for a return to the days of life in the community as My life took Me further and further away from both its location and its ideals. I had drifted into a very different life of hard work and no play, anonymity, solitude and anger. I didn’t even recognise Myself any more. It was at this point that I decided to make a huge change in My life and that Mistress Evilyne was born. I was awestruck at first, by the kindness shown within the community towards Me, a little newcomer with no prior experience. People went out of their way to help Me and include Me. Very quickly though, I realised that there is an undercurrent of political agendas running through the BDSM community. Some people were genuinely altruistic, whereas other had an end game. I also still had trouble feeling any sort of connection with many people within the community. Kindness is not enough. I have always been someone who searches for a deeper connection than just light hearted friendships and banter. I don’t go out to many events because of this. Being a social butterfly is not My thing. I invest Myself in relationships, whichever sort they be: friendship, love, family,… I invest Myself and expect the same from the other party.
I tried building partnerships with a few other Mistresses, but none worked, Either they couldn’t see beyond their noses and refused to return the effort that I was putting into building something as a team, or they refused to open up and show Me their vulnerabilities. I came to the conclusion that once again, I would have to proceed alone…
And then My stars aligned. Suddenly, I stumbled across a whole group of ladies whose firm belief in the Sisterhood made Me see another side of the BDSM community. Strong, independent Women who have achieved Their goals and who are comfortable in Their own skins. It gave Me faith and a new burst of energy to start moving forward. But still, I was alone at Dungeon Manor. 1 Mistress in a big house.
In October last year though, all this was turned on its head as Governess Ely moved in with Me. She was the final piece of the puzzle. Thanks to Her presence, Dungeon Manor has flourished and with the two of Us at the helm, it has quickly developed into much more than a dungeon hire. Dungeon Manor, in a matter of months, has turned into a full blown community, of as Mistress Sidonia called it half jokingly, Dom-unity.
Dungeon Manor is My pride and glory. It is a place where Mistresses can live the lifestyle, and where submissive men are encouraged to explore their kinks and can serve dominant women for real. This is not just a place where Mistresses and subs come and go for sessions. At the Manor, we welcome service orientated submissives who are looking for more of a lifestyle than just a fix for their kink. The environment is interactive, creative, and supportive. You help Us, and We’ll help you. Both Governess Ely and I are of course professional Mistresses, but We are lifestyle also. And as such, We take on personal boys on a regular basis. If you are driven, respectful, and have a skill set to offer, come along for a trial! You’ve never been anywhere like this before. Dungeon Manor is a truly unique environment where submissives flourish. Serve well, spoil Us a bit, and pay a low monthly tribute, and We will help you to reach your full potential as a submissive male in a caring and nurturing environment.
We have already welcomed Mistresses from all around the world and will continue to do so. We offer them more than a simple dungeon hire. We embrace them into the Sisterhood, and allow them (many of whom, for various reasons can’t live the lifestyle at home), to be serve by slaves as it was meant to be. Dungeon Manor is a retreat for the ladies. Away from the leather and rubber of the london scene, it is a haven of peace where men serve and Women rule.