The Femdom Ball Dress Code And Etiquette Guide

The Femdom Ball is coming.

As many of you know, I’m the Door Bitch at the Femdom Ball. This job doesn’t only include making sure every attendee has a ticket. It also gives me the power to refuse entry to anybody not appropriately attired. Up until now, we at the Femdom Ball have been slightly lax about the dress code and have allowed people in who were not suitably attired. This year, as we celebrate our fifth birthday, we are also going to be much stricter in enforcing the dress code. This is a black tie event, so please don’t embarrass yourself by turning up in an unsuitable outfit.

And let me assure you that I will not hesitate to refuse you entry if you do. 

Now fair is fair, some people have never been to a black tie event and aren’t aware of the dress code. So I am going to spend the rest of this blog post spelling it out for you in no uncertain terms.

 

 

Dress code for the Ladies

 

What isn’t allowed

 

Cocktail dresses

It doesn’t matter how sexy/chic/outrageous/fancy it is. If it’s short, it’s not a ballgown and you won’t be allowed into the venue. Your ankles should not be visible!

 

 

Dressing for work

I know it’s a FEMDOM ball, and with the Fetish ball just around the corner (which allows you to dress however you want), it can be a bit confusing. However, the Femdom Ball is a gala event, so please do not come dressed for work. Fetish outfits (even those wow factor ones with inflatable breasts etc) will not be accepted in the event.

 

Showing all your flesh

Now we get into the more complex aspects of the event. As mentioned above, this is not the fetish ball. Just wearing something long isn’t enough. If your nipples, bits and crack are on show for all to see, I’m afraid to say that you won’t be permitted to attend. The Femdom Ball is a classy event. Please show your respect by keeping the more risque outfits for another event.

 

Jumpsuits

If it’s got a tube for each leg then I’m sorry to tell you that it’s a jumpsuit, not a ballgown. And it doesn’t matter how distinguished or fancy your jumpsuit is, it won’t make the cut. One tube for both legs only!

 

 

What we encourage you to wear

 

Ballgowns!

Does it touch the ground? Do you have to lift it to walk? Is it incredibly opulent? Is it something you’d imagine a princess or movie star wearing to an event like the Oscars or the Met Gala? Bravo! You’ve found yourself a ballgown!

 

Obsessed with PVC or leather? Maybe with wetlook spandex? If you can find a ballgown made of that material, then rock it! Be extra! We love to see creativity with different fabrics. Just make sure the shape still fits the traditional ballgown standards

 

Gender bending

Don’t feel comfortable in a dress? You are welcome to rock a tuxedo! Show us your gender bending prowess and outdo all the men in the style department. 

 

 

Dress code for the gentlemen

 

What isn’t allowed:

Colours and patterns

The Femdom Ball is all about the ladies! Slaves are meant to melt into the background. As such, if you are dressing in a suit, please avoid colours and patterns. 

 

Exposed skin and/or genitals

I cannot stress enough that the Femdom Ball is NOT a fetish party! Please do not dress as if you are going to one! This is a formal event. Nobody wants to see your arse cheeks, nipples or genitals. Hide them! Please be covered from head to toe or you will not be admitted.

 

Tacky slutty sissy outfits

We love our sissies and TV’s at the Femdom Ball, and we want you to shine. But please try to shine more like a star in the sky and less like a Poundland key ring flashlight. 

 

Attention seeking fetish outfits

There’s no space for peacocks at the Femdom Ball. Please remember the event is ALL about the ladies, and keep your outfit modest and simple. We do not appreciate attention seeking slaves. You are meant to blend into the background and leave the space for your Mistress to shine.

 

Casual all black outfits

The Femdom Ball is a formal event with a formal Black Tie dress code. When we say we want slaves in all black, this does not mean black T-shirt and black jeans, or a casual black shirt. If you can’t tell the difference between a casual shirt and a dress shirt, I recommend that you head to your closest T.M. Lewin and ask for help!

 

 

What we encourage you to wear:

Black suit or tuxedo

Ideally with a black shirt, although we will accept white shirts too. Please be sure to wear a tie or bow tie (also black). You may also wear a classic suit made of a fetish material such as leather or latex. 

 

Classic all black fetish outfit

By all means come dressed as a slave.Just be sure that your outfit is simple and classic and all black. Also please be fully covered. 

 

Beautiful, classy and reserved sissy outfits

If you wish to wear a sissy outfit, please ensure that it is as formal as possible. Below the knee dresses only. Please wear something high quality and aesthetically pleasing. If you are a TV, by all means follow the same dress code as the ladies. Ballgown!

 

Kilts

You may wear a kilt to the Femdom Ball. We would ask that you ideally be wearing a black formal wear kilt of one made of fetish material, but we will also allow more classic tartan. 

Etiquette

 

The Femdom Ball is not only a formal fetish event, but also a high protocol one. As such, we expect all Mistresses and slaves to follow certain codes of conduct.

Please be advised just like the dress code, we will be enforcing the rules of conduct at the event and anyone found transgressing these risks being shown the door.

Absolutely NO photos will be allowed at the event

On the night, there will be several official Femdom Ball photographers available to take your photo should you so wish. Following the marvellous example set by the Berlin clubs, we will be placing stickers on all phone cameras. We have had a lot of trouble with attendees taking photos at the event in past years and have been disheartened to see many photos poping up on social media in spite of our strict no photo code. This rule is to protect the venue which is kind enough to host our event, and also to protect the identities of many of our less “out” attendees. Many guests at the Femdom Ball do not wish to be seen on the internet, and it is all of our responsibility to ensure that this doesn’t happen. Anybody caught taking photographs with their phone, having removed the sticker, or posting photos from the event on social media wil risk getting expelled from the event and/or being banned from attending future events.

 

As you know, we provide our female guests with champagne on arrival. However, any champagne after this needs to be bought at the bar. With this in mind, if you see a bottle of champagne on a table during the night, please respect that it was bought by somebody for themselves and their table. If you want more champagne, please buy your own and don’t go helping yourself from the bottle at somebody else’s table! 

 

Slaves are not permitted to drink anything for the first 2 hours of the event. After this time, they can buy drinks at the bar ONLY if permitted to do so by their owner, and ONLY by the bar.
Slaves are prohibited from taking their drinks into the main room or the playroom.

 

Slaves must be hooded for the first hour of the event. All slaves must come equipped with a black full head hood which they will be expected to wear for at least the first hour of the event,
so as to be anonymous and let the ladies shine. After the first hour, slaves may remove their hood if they are given permission to do so by their Mistress.
Sissies and TV’s do not have to wear a hood as they will have full makeup on.

 

All slaves must wear a collar and lead. This includes sissies and TV slaves.

 

Slaves must be seen but not heard. Slaves must keep their eyes to the ground out of respect and only speak when spoken to.

 

Slaves must bow to Ladies when they meet them. Sissies must curtsy.
Slaves must be respectful to the Ladies at all times. Slaves may only play with another Mistress if their owner has given them permission to do so. 

 


Sitting on the furniture is absolutely prohibited for all slaves. there will be a zero tolerance policy for this.
We have had men come to the ball in the past who do not identify as slaves and decide they can sit on the furniture.
If you come to the Femdom Ball as a man, you are going to be treated as a slave. No exceptions.

 

Last of all, remember: the event safe word is RED! Do not be afraid to use it. 

 

 

 

 

 

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