I don’t think you understand the meaning of submission
Every single day, I receive emails and phone calls from men saying “I want to submit to You Mistress”. But you know what? They’re all lies. All the men who say this to Me think they’re telling Me the truth. The problem is that they are lying to themselves before even lying to Me.
Getting your kicks by asking Me to go through a list of your kinks is not submission. Being needy and controlling is not submission. Getting angry and turning on Me, calling Me names when I refuse you is NOT submission.
In order to educate the masses, I have decided to explain exactly what submission is.
The Oxford Dictionary defines submission as follows:
The action of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person
I don’ think many of you have ever really taken the time to ponder on the meaning of the word. So maybe you should take a few minutes at some point today with a pen and a piece of paper, and write down your thoughts on what all this can mean. In the meantime, I will give you an explanation of what submission means to Me.
It takes a lot of resolve to truly submit to a Woman. Most men want to submit, but always have a little voice at the back of their head questioning what they are doing. The voice tells them that they know better than the Mistress. The voice tells them to distrust the Mistress. The voice tells them to manipulate the Mistress. This voice is the voice that keeps you from fully submitting.
Giving absolute power to another person is a very scary thing. Wholeheartedly putting your trust in a mere mortal is even scarier. But in order to submit, you need to go beyond those fears, and ride the wave. Of course every so often your Mistress will make a mistake and by doing so remind you that She is simply another mortal just like you. But you were the one who went to Her in the first place and offered Her your submission! How dare you question it at the first sign of humanity? Of course She is human! Despite the fact that you like to deify Us from afar, when you see all Our pictures on the internet, with perfect outfits and perfect make-up, We are real people with real flaws! It is completely foolish and immature of you to expect a Mistress to be faultless in real life. Male submission to a Female is not about the Woman ACTUALLY being a Goddess, it’s about you accepting to give Her that status. It’s about you adoring Her and trusting Her.
Even the most perfect of Women get periods, mood swings, moments of emotional irrationality and diarrhoea. If you want to submit to a Woman who never has any of those things, go to your local topshop and prostrate yourself in front of one of their plaster mannequins, because that is the closest that you are ever going to get to your fantasy. Speaking of fantasy, this is where you are all going very wrong. Almost all of you suffer from the “grass is greener” syndrome. You are searching for this idealised perfection which is presented to you in droves through the internet, and you skip from Woman to Woman, never being satisfied by any of Them, always hoping that the next one will be better. When you are serving one, suddenly, every other Mistress seems more attractive to you. Could you imagine if I was so fickle as you are? Wouldn’t it be pathetic?
Rather than looking at all the things that the Lady you are serving is not, try being grateful for all the things that She is. Until you can live in the moment, you will never know what it is to truly be alive. You will spend your life as a miserable worm, crawling fropm shoe to shoe in search of the perfect foot. You will be missing the point totally.
My personal slave has been serving Me for nearly 2 years now. We have been through thick and thin together. For the first year and a half, he battled with his submission. Every day there was something new that bothered him or unsettled him. First it was the way I capitalise Myself. Next, he had a rather long breakdown because he couldn’t work out what Our relationship actually was. After that, it was limits appearing right left and centre which had’t ever been there when we started. He was riddled with doubt about everything. It was all so new to him, and it was all very scary. He had been visiting Mistresses for years. He had plenty of experience and was very well trained. But he had been seeing these Ladies in order to satisfy his own personal needs. Even though the desire to submit burned bright within him, He had never been able to give in to it, and was still struggling to do so until not that long ago. Then, one day a month or two ago, everything just clicked into place.
What had changed? He had made a conscious decision to stop questioning things. He had made the decision to trust Me and obey Me. And I have never seen him happier than he is now. When a man listens to a Woman and yields to Her authority in his totality, he can finally find happiness.
Worshipping your Mistress as a Goddess does not mean showering Her with meaningless compliments.
Accept to no longer have a choice, accept to do as She orders, accept to treat Her like your superior. Learn to make Her proud as opposed to turning yourself into a snivelling grub in Her presence. Treat Her like the most important thing in your life. Trust Her to know better than you what is good for you. Have faith, and your life will become a fluid stream of joy.