Domme-Drop

As many of you may know, I was a pastry chef in a previous life. I worked long hours, was on My feet every hour of every day, constantly under pressure, and always stressed. I did this for 10 years. I used to always be...

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Thoughts on dominance

I have recently been reflecting a lot on the meaning and manifestations of Female Dominance. There are so many characteristics which are (wrongly) associated with Dominant Ladies and that are used by many women to assert a fake image of Dominance. So I have decided...

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Club pedestal, femdom ettiquette

Ettiquette

Being a regular attendant at a rather well known Femdom Club here in London, I have had the privilege of meeting some incredible subs. I have also had the misfortune of encountering some rather unruly and poorly trained men there. Over time, I have compiled...

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On sadism

sa·dism ˈsāˌdizəm noun 1. the tendency to derive pleasure, esp. sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others. A while back, I met a submissive man online who, when he found out about My interests, offered to meet up and discuss them. He promised that this might...

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Club Pedestal

Well this is it. The last week of the month started about an hour ago, and that means that Club Pedestal ios around the corner. If you have never heard of Club Pedestal, let Me give you a brief idea of what it is all about....

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Reliability

I hate to write such a negative post, but I sadly have no choice but to share My feelings with you. I am your fantasy. I am an object of desire. I am your greatest dream. I know all this and many of you are kind...

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On Humiliation

Funny one, isn't it, humiliation? You strive your whole life to be accepted and respected, desperately avoiding the crippling embarrassment of being scoffed at, jeered at or spoken of behind your back. That sense of unease that creeps over you late at night when all the...

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